Wedding season is upon us! Planning a wedding can be stressful and overwhelming, but there are some ways to lessen the emotional and monetary load. In the video above, I share tips for cutting costs and staying sane while you do it.

Do you have any advice to share from planning your own wedding? Are you planning one right now? Tell me in the comments!

For more on weddings, check out one dad’s take on the Royal wedding—and Mayim’s take on the Shamy wedding, plus see her behind-the-scene images.