Is anyone out there as guilty as I am for losing their cool with their kids once in a while? In this week’s video, I share the most powerful tool I’ve found for dealing with this, and you’re probably not gonna like it because it involves the words “I’m sorry.” Saying sorry doesn’t mean losing your power as a parent—it actually helps you reclaim it. Watch the video above to hear my full thoughts on the matter, and comment below to let me know what your most powerful parenting tool is.

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